Discuss anything you like about women's chess at home and abroad.
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Nick Burrows
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by Nick Burrows » Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:24 pm
JustinHorton wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 9:46 pm
Right, but a woman complaining about rank sexism isn't "a spat between individuals", is it?
She was accusing him of being sexist, and they had a public disagreement
She states that she has been making public accusations about him on the British Chess News Facebook page for many years.
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JustinHorton
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by JustinHorton » Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:48 pm
Nick Burrows wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:24 pm
She was accusing him of being sexist
That's not to be considered a spat between individuals, is it
"Do you play chess?"
"Yes, but I prefer a game with a better chance of cheating."
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Nick Burrows
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by Nick Burrows » Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:54 pm
JustinHorton wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:48 pm
Nick Burrows wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:24 pm
She was accusing him of being sexist
That's not to be considered a spat between individuals, is it
You're being pedantic, aren't you.
You're also loving this particular discussion, aren't you.
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JustinHorton
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by JustinHorton » Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:59 pm
Nick Burrows wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:54 pm
You're being pedantic, aren't you.
No, I'm trying to get it over to you that gross sexism on one person's part, and objections to it on another's, aren't a personality clash.
Nick Burrows wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:54 pm
You're also loving this particular discussion, aren't you.
What a silly thing to say about such a serious subject.
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Nick Burrows
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by Nick Burrows » Tue Aug 09, 2022 11:05 pm
JustinHorton wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:59 pm
Nick Burrows wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 10:54 pm
You're being pedantic, aren't you.
No, Im trying to get it over to you that sexism on one person's part, and objections to it on another's, aren't a personaity clash.
An accusation of sexism, and a public disagreement about it in a combative tone is.
I will leave it there, because i don't wish to roll around the sty with you interminably.
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JustinHorton
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by JustinHorton » Tue Aug 09, 2022 11:07 pm
Nick Burrows wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 11:05 pm
i don't wish to roll around the sty with you interminably.
And I think we can take it, from that alone, how seriously you view this subject. Perhaps it would be better to have chosen silence earlier.
Nick Burrows wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 11:05 pm
An accusation of sexism, and a public disagreement about it in a combative tone is.
Imagine women being combative about sexism.
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JustinHorton
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by JustinHorton » Wed Aug 10, 2022 8:02 am
You're rmaking a spectacle of yourself, Nick.
"Do you play chess?"
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Mick Norris
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by Mick Norris » Wed Aug 10, 2022 8:07 am
J T Melsom wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 9:40 pm
People are lining up to attack the credibility and motives of Amanda Ross. Why? Isn't this behaviour one of the major reasons that sexual offences are under-reported in society? Do posters think they are making it easier for victims to come forward?
Why? Because that's what some posters on here tend to do, depressingly
Yes
No
It would be possible to adopt a neutral stance, or even to assume that when someone has come forward with allegations, they may well be true
I'd have thought brining the complaint to the attention of the ECF non-executive directors or chairman was the way to go rather than to Aga, but others may not
Any postings on here represent my personal views
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by David Sedgwick » Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:42 am
Mick Norris wrote: ↑Wed Aug 10, 2022 8:07 am
I'd have thought brining the complaint to the attention of the ECF non-executive directors or chairman was the way to go rather than to Aga, but others may not.
That it is not immediately apparent to whom such complaints should be made is something of a problem in itself.
Mick Norris wrote: ↑Wed Aug 10, 2022 8:07 am
It would be possible to adopt a neutral stance, or even to assume that when someone has come forward with allegations, they may well be true
If someone comes forward with a complaint that they have been sexually abused or harassed, then I like to think that that is what I would do.
If someone comes forward with a complaint that they have been told by A, B and C that they have been sexually abused or harassed by X, then I tend to be more cautious.
I wish to make it clear that I am not alleging deliberately dishonesty or lying by anyone mentioned in this thread, whether by name or otherwise. It would indeed be hypocritical for me to do that.
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JustinHorton
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by JustinHorton » Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:44 am
David Sedgwick wrote: ↑Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:42 am
Mick Norris wrote: ↑Wed Aug 10, 2022 8:07 am
I'd have thought brining the complaint to the attention of the ECF non-executive directors or chairman was the way to go rather than to Aga, but others may not.
That it is not immediately apparent to whom such complaints should be made is something of a problem in itself.
No doubt, though the problem here appears to be not that this was unclear, or that the recipient was cautious, but that the recipient did not reply to the complaint.
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Carl Hibbard
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by Carl Hibbard » Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:49 am
A potentially libellous was removed.
Cheers
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by Thomas Rendle » Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:55 am
David Sedgwick wrote: ↑Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:42 am
If someone comes forward with a complaint that they have been sexually abused or harassed, then I like to think that that is what I would do.
If someone comes forward with a complaint that they have been told by A, B and C that they have been sexually abused or harassed by X, then I tend to be more cautious.
I think there needs to be a system in place where people feel comfortable coming forward. There's a reason there hasn't been a 'me too' moment in both English and International chess, it's not for the lack of cases (without commenting on specific allegations). What is the current procedure for reporting harrassment (sexual or otherwise) at a chess event in England? Ideally it wouldn't be done via this forum, which to be honest I try not to post on these days.
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David Sedgwick
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by David Sedgwick » Wed Aug 10, 2022 10:02 am
Carl Hibbard wrote: ↑Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:49 am
A potentially libellous was removed.
Are you aware that you haven't removed a post in which the allegedly libellous one was quoted?
Will you and Jack be moving the posts which are not about the Olympiad to another thread?
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David Sedgwick
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by David Sedgwick » Wed Aug 10, 2022 10:03 am
Thomas Rendle wrote: ↑Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:55 am
Ideally it wouldn't be done via this forum, which to be honest I try not to post on these days.
That is a pity. Your contributions are always valuable.
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Matt Bridgeman
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by Matt Bridgeman » Wed Aug 10, 2022 10:15 am
The English Bridge Union seem to have a law and ethics officer, but as stated there doesn’t seem to be a point of contact at the ECF that is obvious.