I think there is your answer.
He who pays the piper calls the tune.
Oh no! It looks like I've caught the aphorism bug from Carl!
Thank you @Hasbro for MS MONOPOLY. Woman need this kind of head start in order to help them to feel empowered.
Now we just need MS CHESS, where the Queen lounges about at the back of the board while the King runs around doing all the hard work for a change.