Geoff Chandler wrote:
"Does this mean all kids should be punished?"
What are you talking about? Who is punishing children?
See what I mean, you just do not remember do you?
Geoff Chandler wrote:
You cannot have publicity without names.
Sigh. Sometimes I am unsure if you are deliberately misinterpreting or trying to provoke. I will only say this one more time. When talking about the games from the juniors, I have suggested that names not be mentioned. That sensitivity might be used.
If you are publicising a junior directly (and this falls under the case by case discussion) which is usually done with the agreement of the junior and their parents, then of course you mention his or her name. Please Geoff can you stop misinterpreting everything!
Geoff Chandler wrote:My other point was in one thread you use this actual quote:
"I suggest that perhaps we talk about the games but not necessarily mention names. "
You can say black on board 4 etc etc and then things do not seem so personal."
Yet when 'no cruel bones Jack' uses the words 'crushing' and 'junior' in the same sentence
as well as naming names. Nothing is said. Infact it quite the reverse.
If I had done that....the PC white Knights would have come charging down the hill to trample me.
I'm afraid I can not come and trample you, I do not know where you live........ yet.
I have already made my suggestion about not using names. What people choose to do thereafter is up to them. Jack is not the only person who mentioned names. Quite a few others have also done so.
Jack IMO is different though. I was hoping not to bring this up, but he has already mentioned on this forum that he suffers from Aspergers. I do understand a little about this and Jack himself has talked a little about what it means for him. I know Jack to be a kind soul and I do not believe that he meant any harm.
If there was harm or upset caused, then I hope that the parents in question will say something to Jack to explain.
From a personal point of view, I will not object to every single person who chooses to disagree with me and mention children's names. (I would be here all day and night!) The forum has its own moderator and it is up to them and each individual to make the right choices.
However, if I felt that someone was purposefully rounding on a child for their own personal gain or out of spite, then yes, I would say something.