A funny story...

[Stephen Westmoreland]

Tattershall Lakes, with the missus, 3 kids and dog. Looking forwards to Scarborough and the rare time out of work/family commitments. The middle one is coming with me to Ilkley in a few weeks.

Where is Tattershall Lakes?
It will be good to finally meet you at last in Scarborough.
Are you going to the Leyland Congress this weekend?

It would be good to meet you there. Sadly I cannot do many congresses due to a busy work and family life. Banking on my son's enthusiasm to get me in more this year!

[Stephen Westmoreland]

Tattershall Lakes is in Lincolnshire.

[J T Melsom]

This seems to imply that 'community standards' are irrelevant when it comes to private messages (in which I seldom indulge).

Being private, the messages are not part of the community as such, and are not subject to moderation.

That is a fair assessment yes.

Carl - thank you for the amplification. Something I'm sure people will wish to reflect upon.

[Carl Hibbard]

This seems to imply that 'community standards' are irrelevant when it comes to private messages (in which I seldom indulge).

Being private, the messages are not part of the community as such, and are not subject to moderation.

That is a fair assessment yes.

Carl - thank you for the amplification. Something I'm sure people will wish to reflect upon.

It is not really fair to expect me to moderate PM's if people cannot place nice on those really.

They are private and I certainly do not want to be digging into the database even if is possible I would consider it an invasion of privacy as well as major hassle.

[NickFaulks]

Perhaps PMs which are taken badly should be reported to the police. It's the sort of thing they like, and not as though there is any actual crime they need to be bothering themselves with.